Married Business Owners: Don’t Go Home Until You Do THIS!
Running a business is no small feat. The endless responsibilities, decision-making, and problem-solving can leave you completely drained by the end of the day. For married business owners, this stress doesn’t just stop at the office—it follows you home.
And here’s the harsh reality: 60% of business owners report having no intimate relationships. None. Zero. That’s not just a statistic—it’s a wake-up call.
If you’re feeling disconnected from your partner, overwhelmed by stress, and stuck in a cycle of constant hustle, you’re not alone. But here’s the good news: There’s a simple shift you can make that will not only strengthen your relationship but also improve your leadership and business.
Before you walk through that door tonight, take a moment to read this.
Let’s be honest—running a business is hard. You’re constantly giving your time, energy, and focus to your clients, team, and goals. By the time you get home, you feel like a lollipop that’s been licked one too many times—sticky, worn out, and maybe even a little bitter.
And guess what? Your partner feels it too.
They see the stress on your face, hear it in your tone, and feel the emotional distance growing. It’s not that you don’t care—you do. But most business owners don’t realize that the same skills they use to grow their business can also be used to strengthen their relationships.
This is where intergender communication comes in.
Now, let’s talk about bonobos for a second. These primates are fascinating. Unlike their chimpanzee cousins, who often resolve conflict with aggression, bonobos use connection to build harmony in their groups.
What does this teach us? That connection is the key to resolving tension and building trust.
And while I’m not suggesting you act like a bonobo when you get home (please don’t!), the principle still applies: Connection comes first.
So, how do you apply this to your relationship? Here are three simple steps you can take before you walk through the door tonight:
Shift Your Focus
At work, your focus is on solving problems and achieving goals. But when you’re at home, your focus needs to shift.
Before you walk through the door, take a deep breath and ask yourself:
"How can I make my partner feel seen, heard, and valued tonight?"
This small mindset shift can make a huge difference.Speak Their Language
Men and women often communicate differently. For example, men tend to focus on solutions, while women often value emotional connection and being heard.
Instead of jumping straight into problem-solving mode, try listening without offering solutions. Say something like, "Tell me more about how that made you feel."
It might feel awkward at first, but trust me—it works.Lead with Connection
Remember the bonobos? Connection comes first. When you walk through the door, don’t immediately start talking about your day or your stress. Instead, greet your partner with warmth. Give them a hug. Ask them how their day was.
These small gestures create a foundation of trust and connection that can transform your relationship.
Think of your relationship like a lollipop. At its best, it’s sweet, enjoyable, and something you look forward to. But what happens if you leave a lollipop out in the sun? It gets sticky, messy, and unappealing.
Your relationship works the same way. If you neglect it—if you don’t protect it—it starts to lose its sweetness. But with a little care and attention, you can bring that sweetness back.
Here’s the thing: The same principles that make you successful in business—like listening, understanding, and focusing on others—are the same principles that can make you successful at home.
When you invest in your relationship, you’re not just improving your personal life. You’re improving your ability to lead, to connect, and to thrive in every area of your life.
So here’s my challenge to you: Don’t go home tonight until you’ve done these three things:
Take a moment to shift your focus.
Think about how you can connect with your partner.
Commit to leading with warmth and understanding.
Because when you do, you’re not just walking through the door—you’re building a stronger, sweeter, and more fulfilling relationship.
If you’re ready to take this to the next level—if you want to learn how to communicate better, connect deeper, and thrive in both your business and your marriage—I’d love to help.
👉 Schedule your free strategy session with me today : https://home.happy-brains.com/book-strat-call
Don’t wait. The sooner you start, the sooner you’ll see the results.
Success isn’t just about what you achieve in your business—it’s about the relationships you build along the way.
So before you go home tonight, take a moment to reconnect with what matters most. Because when your relationships thrive, everything else falls into place.
Let’s make it happen—together.
