When Was the Last Time Your Loved Ones Said They Are Proud of You?
Let’s be honest—when was the last time someone in your family looked you in the eye and said, “I’m proud of you”? Not for a business win, not for a big deal closed, but for who you are, how you show up, and the impact you make. If you’re a business owner, you probably crave that feeling more than any LinkedIn endorsement. It’s sweeter than lemonade on a hot day. Yet, for many of us, the journey to feeling truly unforgettable and trusted—especially by our loved ones—can feel like a never-ending tire rolling uphill.
Let’s call it what it is: business owners are often celebrated in the boardroom but invisible at the dinner table. You work late, you hustle, you build, but sometimes it feels like your family only sees the stress, not the success. The deeper you dive into your business, the more you risk becoming a stranger to those who matter most. It’s like squeezing a lemon—so much potential, but unless you press, you never get the juice.
But here’s the kicker: if you don’t feel unforgettable and trusted at home, no amount of business growth will fill that gap. You might be turning the wheels, but if your tires are flat on the home front, you’re not going anywhere meaningful.
Let’s get real for a second. What happens when your family doesn’t see you? You start questioning your worth. You work even harder, thinking that more success will finally get you that “proud of you” moment. But it rarely comes. The distance grows. The dinner table gets quieter. You might even find yourself envying the neighbor whose kid runs up with a drawing just to say, “Look what I made for you!”
The truth is, being unforgettable in business starts with being unforgettable at home. If your family trusts you, believes in you, and feels proud of you, that confidence becomes the foundation for everything else. Ignore it, and you’ll feel like a lemon left on the shelf—bright on the outside, but slowly drying up inside.
Take Howard Schultz, the legendary founder of Starbucks. He often credits his drive and empathy to the struggles and pride of his parents. Schultz’s sense of purpose wasn’t just built in boardrooms; it was forged at home, where feeling seen and trusted laid the groundwork for his global success. That’s not just a business lesson—it’s a life lesson.
So how do you patch the tires of your home life and squeeze the most out of your lemon moments? Here’s a roadmap for business owners who want to be truly unforgettable, starting with those who matter most:
Be Present—Really Present. Put the phone down. Step away from the laptop. Give your family the same attention you give your top clients. If you can listen to a customer’s pain points, you can listen to your partner’s day. Don’t let your attention be as scattered as lemon seeds on a cutting board.
Share Your Journey. Don’t just bring home the wins; bring home the lessons, the struggles, and the dreams. Vulnerability builds trust. When your family sees both your victories and your flat-tire moments, they’ll understand and appreciate your journey.
Ask for Feedback. Just like you’d ask a client for a testimonial, ask your loved ones how you can be a better parent, partner, or friend. Their answers might surprise you—and help you grow in ways no business seminar ever could.
Celebrate Together. Make your family part of your milestones. When you land a new client or launch a new product, celebrate with them. Pop the lemonade, not just the champagne. Let them feel like they’re riding shotgun, not just watching from the curb.
Be Consistent. Trust is built on consistency. Show up, even when you’re tired. Keep your promises, even when the road gets bumpy. That’s how you keep your family’s trust tires fully inflated.
Make the feel great!
Here’s the big twist: when you become unforgettable and trusted at home, you become magnetic in business. Clients sense your confidence. Partners trust your word. Your team feels your authenticity. You’re not just selling; you’re inspiring.
Think of it like this: you can have the flashiest car in the world, but if your tires are worn out, you’re not going far. Likewise, you can have all the business accolades, but if your family isn’t proud of you, you’re missing the sweetest part of success. Don’t be the lemon with all the shine and none of the juice.
Ready to Be Unforgettable?
If you’re ready to patch your tires, squeeze the most out of your lemons, and finally hear those magic words—“I’m proud of you”—from the people who matter most, I invite you to take the next step.
Watch my free webinar: How to Become Truly Unforgettable. You’ll discover actionable strategies to build trust, elevate your relationships, and become the business owner your family (and your clients) will never forget.
Because at the end of the day, it’s not about being the richest, the busiest, or the most followed. It’s about being the person who makes their loved ones—and themselves—proud. So, when was the last time your loved ones said they’re proud of you? Maybe it’s time to find out.
